lol you'd be surprised... I wouldn't say S&M, but a little bondage is definitely kinky especially if she is dominant (oh and she is)... try this: (we did it fully clothed ok?) let her tie your hands behind your back, not tightly. Then lie on your back on the bed and let she start kissing you. No matter how hard you try, you cannot get loose. You WANT to (to hug her, press her closer to you), but you get distracted because she is kissing you. Very very weird, and fun