My girlfriend

Jeslek

Jeslek

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Ever came to a time with a girlfriend that she became more, or less (whatever you think) than that? Its weird... We've kind of slowly drifted away from the sexual kind of love and don't really consider each other boyfriend and girlfriend anymore, just really, really good friends. We "broke up" if you could call it that, but there was none of the usual sadness, disappointment, rage, anger, and all that involved. I think we both kind of decided its better to be really good friends than lovers.

I'm not experienced really... Is this normal? or not really? I've always associated break ups as ... more emotional than this.

Ah well, I'm once again single and looking...
 
some are some arent. depends on what happens. be glad it didnt turn out worse. its normal to feel hurt after a break up but this seems like niether was hurt so all is good. welcome to the single life. gets lonely sometimes but theres more freedom. whom i kidding its not as nice :crying2:
 
Since I was 16 years old, I've only been single for a period of about 18 months. Have to say I really enjoyed myself.

As for the breakup, each is different, I'm still very good friends with an old high school girlfriend, she is someone I can talk to even when I can't talk to my wife. There was a period of a month or two where we didn't talk, but since then, we talk at least once a month. The internet has made that so much cheaper too, considering she lives about 1,000 miles away now. My first wife never liked that I talked to her, my current wife had a problem with her for a few months, but has since even started talking to her herself, she knows it's nothing sexual, but just really good friends.
 
All three of my breakups were emotional. All three times, her emotion was sick twisted desire to break my heart, my emotion was depression. :headbang:
 
LL sounds healthy. The way it should be. Sadly, not the way it usually is. Most people these days are selfish and carrying mental baggage. Unfit to even have a healthy relationship.
(this one ought to step on some toes)
 
Thank you. I take great care in personal relationships, whether friends or lovers. We are both more at ease now I think. :D I'm still going to take her skydiving. Hopefully. :p
 
I think LL being a somewhat healthy person(granted he's a little crazy) is seeking out healthy woman, therefor he's probably not going to go out with a girl who would cheat.
 
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I think LL being a somewhat healthy person(granted he's a little crazy) is seeking out healthy woman, therefor he's probably not going to go out with a girl who would cheat.
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Mhh, hopefully not. I'm not quite sure yet what to do if I do have a girl that cheated.

Now, explain the crazy part...
 
Does an insane person understand that they are crazy? Most certianly not. So how can you expect me to explain it to you when you would just deny it. I mean reaally! :rolleyes:
 
I've had a few girlfriends where we've just drifted apart like that. You tend to think things are fine but sometimes there can still be some feelings that are still there that can cause problems later. Just be careful.
 
Good to hear you two drifted away from being lovers...at least nobody is hurt now :)

Glad to hear you're doing fine :)
 
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