Acid
New Member
I'll try to keep it condensed.
I asked a girl to Prom (that I have been talking to for a while, just bad timing), and she says yes - She even told my best friend she wanted me to ask her.
A week and a half later, I find out she has a boyfriend! But here's where the situation gets wierd, she didn't tell me..one of my friends mentioned it, in her presence. She gave him a look of death, etc. She had once made it seem like she didn't have a boyfriend (I said "where's your man" joking around about someone else, and she said that she had none). She doesn't talk about him around me. Ever.
So, at a TSA conference that is 3 days long, I hang out with her all 3 days. We talk constantly, flirt, etc. We're always side by side. We talk about prom some. I don't go party with my friends to hang out with her (I bet I pissed some guys off). I pretty much did everything I could to impress her, in the least.
And to top it off, she flirted with me the entire way home (more than I flirted with her!).
I don't get it. What am I supposed to think/do about this? She has a boyfriend, but obviously likes me as well. This kind of thing happened last year, and it left a sour taste in my mouth (initially, but it still sucks wasting the time).
Oh, and she said one very odd thing. I might touch up on that later. It.. um.. sounds good, for me.
How should I go about asking her out though? Should I just up and ask her out to a movie/whatnot, or flirt around until she gets the point/knows I'm serious and breaks up with her guy?
I asked a girl to Prom (that I have been talking to for a while, just bad timing), and she says yes - She even told my best friend she wanted me to ask her.
A week and a half later, I find out she has a boyfriend! But here's where the situation gets wierd, she didn't tell me..one of my friends mentioned it, in her presence. She gave him a look of death, etc. She had once made it seem like she didn't have a boyfriend (I said "where's your man" joking around about someone else, and she said that she had none). She doesn't talk about him around me. Ever.
So, at a TSA conference that is 3 days long, I hang out with her all 3 days. We talk constantly, flirt, etc. We're always side by side. We talk about prom some. I don't go party with my friends to hang out with her (I bet I pissed some guys off). I pretty much did everything I could to impress her, in the least.
And to top it off, she flirted with me the entire way home (more than I flirted with her!).
I don't get it. What am I supposed to think/do about this? She has a boyfriend, but obviously likes me as well. This kind of thing happened last year, and it left a sour taste in my mouth (initially, but it still sucks wasting the time).
Oh, and she said one very odd thing. I might touch up on that later. It.. um.. sounds good, for me.
How should I go about asking her out though? Should I just up and ask her out to a movie/whatnot, or flirt around until she gets the point/knows I'm serious and breaks up with her guy?