So, do you like people hitting on you?

[Jeslek]

Do ya? I don't mind If you are married, what did you think before you got married?

 

[BlurOfSerenity]

right now, id be really happy if anyone hit on me.

...as long as they did it in a proper fasihion. ie, because they like me, not because they just want to get up my skirt.

 

[Jon]

I don't mind girls hitting on me. Hell, it makes a change from them saying I'm ugly hehe

I also don't mind blokes trying it on. It gives me a certain degree of confidence, and from my own experience, I've also noticed that whilst I'm being hit on by a man, girls tend to look at me and talk to me more. Weird, but I don't complain

There IS a line though, which I firmly draw from the outset. If that line is crossed, I make it known I'm not comfortable...

 

[BlurOfSerenity]

a guy friend of mine says that girls always want what they can't have.
when he was in school, he'd pretend he was gay, and all the girls would instantly want him.

 

[Jeslek]

when he was in school, he'd pretend he was gay, and all the girls would instantly want him.

I need to try that.

 

[Jon]

lol! i've tried that whilst out once. i have to say while i got to know more girls than ever before, i was also hit on by more guys than ever before... this was quite a while ago before i was at university and i was quite uncomfotable with the guy thing, as i'd not really hung out with gay men before. now i work with them, and a couple of guys in my social group are gay; i don't give two shits now

 

[Jeslek]

I don't care either. Oh and RL...

 

[Dave]

i used to work in a section of boston that had a rather large gay population. i was getting hit on 2-3 times a week. cured me of my habit of leering at women though.

 

[samcurry]

not when it leaves bruises. that being hit on too hard.

 

[PT]

It really doesn't bother me to be hit on by anyone. I find it a compliment, even if it is a guy.

 

[Spirit]

I don't mind either.. it's flattering. I was gettin' hit on BIG time on Friday and I have to say - quite an ego boost

 

[tommyj27]

no one hits on me

 

[Jeslek]

no one hits on me

 

[Inkara1]

It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside when a girl hits on me.

 

[Altron]

No one hits on me

 

[flavio]

when he was in school, he'd pretend he was gay, and all the girls would instantly want him.

I need to try that.

Pretend?

 

[Altron]

Yeah LL, just be yourself...

 

[ris]

i don't care, it's flattering and i'm spoken for

 

[Arris]

I only minded once when I went to a club in Milan with two girls to find out that it was "Gay transgender lesbian pride evening". In my shock I stood at the bar and downed a few drinks. Some small italian guy started talking to me and then put his hand on my chest. I removed it and he put it back. Fortunately before I smacked him one the girls I was with came and rescued me and took me to the dance floor.

 

[ris]

hey, arris mate, you in there