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Once again, the other thread made me think about it.
Silly relationships: the ones you have when you're almost playing to be bf/gf....
Formal: if you are serious about the relationship, you have strong feelings for your partner, when you're married, or you're living with him/her.
Rules, if you have cheated on formal and silly relationships, select yes on formal relationships
Word of th day.
PS = P.D. (posdata or postdata, both are correct) [/size]
nope, never
i don't think i could handle the guilt
beer good
sloppy seconds bad :P
Professur
5/17/02, 10:09pm
Never. Never have, never will. My word is my bond.
The only thing I ever cheat on is cards. And that's only done if there's no money involved.
Once, when I was in a silly relationship with a guy, I kisssed another guy. That's how far I cheated. I don't know if that even counts, seeing as I wasn't really in a real relationship with the first guy anyway.
I'm in a real relationship now. I can't even fathom cheating on my luv.
That's why they made "breaking up" for high schoolers. Say you're breaking up & then go be naughty.
In real life, Never.
Professur
5/17/02, 10:40pm
Did you think it wasn't a 'real relationship' before you went kissing someone else?
I knew it wasn't a real relationship. It was convenient. That kind of relationships never last long.
I shouldn't have kissed the other guy though. We had been drinking. He kissed me, I stopped it :shrug: It was a nice kiss though.
Justintime
5/17/02, 10:44pm
never :cool:
Professur
5/17/02, 10:59pm
Originally posted by kuulani
I knew it wasn't a real relationship. It was convenient. That kind of relationships never last long.
I shouldn't have kissed the other guy though. We had been drinking. He kissed me, I stopped it :shrug: It was a nice kiss though.
Ah. So you weren't the instigator. And you stopped it.
But did HE know it wasn't a real relationship?
It was kinda unspoken, but we both knew we weren't "the one" for each other. At the end, he asked if he could start seeing someone else, and I let him go. It wasn't that hard.
Originally posted by Justintime
never :cool:
Are you sure ?
damn my friend is going to be upset ;)
Jeez........i'm the only one that has cheated, along with kuu, but as she said it wasn't like "cheating cheating" :rolleyes:
greenfreak
5/19/02, 12:23am
Hoping for a different outcome Luis? :P ;)
I've never cheated but have been cheated on at least once that I know of. I always asked guys that I liked if they've ever cheated on anyone. If they said yes, no matter what the circumstance, I would not go out with them. If they said no, and I found out later that they lied, I would break up with them and cut all ties. My three cardinal rules of dating (no particular order):
1. no cheating
2. no drugs
3. no lying
Any of those things happening resulted in me 'cutting all ties' and thus never speaking to them again.
:D :D
Dinner next friday?
:laugh: :laugh:
greenfreak
5/19/02, 01:01am
Sorry hon but I have a date-with my boyfriend. :D
Berserker
5/19/02, 01:07am
Me, never been hurt so much in my life but I was played by a girl. I would like to return her the favour if I've got a chance. I vever had a good relationship with any girls that like to play hard to get. :mad:
AlladinSane
5/19/02, 08:01pm
I never had a serious relationship. I mean I've never called a girl 'my girlfriend'(even if sometimes there where deep feelings involved). During those I only hung with another girls a couple of times. The first case the girls I was meeting had a boyfriend. The later the woman clearly stated she has no interest in me in long term. In both cases I told them I had hung with another gals. In my opinion I didn't cheat them.
Hi Noite, i didn't knew it was you until i read your signature :)
Yes, I cheated in two different serious relationships and one halfway sort of silly one. Didn't really have any excuse for it except raging hormones and drinking. Not that those are valid excuses.
I've managed to mature a little and would never do that again.
freako104
5/31/02, 03:16am
nope cant cheat. the closet i came was when i was at a party and i was drunk and started flirtign with another girl. my mum and my then gf were pissed at me. i felt so guilty about just harmless flirting i dont think i ever could cheat.
Originally posted by flavio
Yes, I cheated in two different serious relationships and one halfway sort of silly one. Didn't really have any excuse for it except raging hormones and drinking. Not that those are valid excuses.
I've managed to mature a little and would never do that again.
Same for me :D . Been cheated even more, so no conscience problem with those :cool: . I told it directly, she got mad. She told me 1 year after, when it was over, but had done it before me and with a friend of mine. That's how they are.
:eek6:
That's not how this they is.
:confuse3:
Now that i remember it, i've been cheated more times than i've cheated...
This year is the cheating year.....i've had two girlfriends this year, and have cheated twice (one on each one), i have never cheated before those. ohh well.
AlladinSane
6/09/02, 03:16pm
Originally posted by Luis G
Hi Noite, i didn't knew it was you until i read your signature :)
That's how I put it there :) . Though as AlladinSane I had a reasonable long discussion with you at HWC some time ago about the portuguese language, and later I identified myself in JJR board.
Yes i remember that portuguese "talk" at HWC :D, i also remember talking with you at JJR's.
I forgot your other nick (AlladinSane), it seems that i remember "dark night" better ;)
Anyway, seeing more off-topic posts under AlladinSane will do it too.
back in high school I sorta cheated on this one guy ... I was going out with him for a few months and a group of us went to the movies but he couldn't go ... after the movie we went to this place called Cononut Island to hang out and that's where one of our friends said that he's had a crush on me since the 9th grade ... he kissed me, and I let him kiss me, and that was that.
After that, I've never "cheated" on anyone.
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